I Heard Myself Through Her Mouth...
Some days back, I was stuck being the middleman between a couple bickering over infidelity issues. The man is the cheat. Shocker . I was silent as I listened to them argue incoherently and I was DAZED . Not by the harsh words thrown at each other. Not by the love hate banters, Not by anything else but by how much of myself I heard from her words. I heard my self through her mouth. I quietly listened to her in disgust. The man was clearly guilty of putting another lady in a family way despite being married yet he intelligently played victim with so much strength and resilience. But the woman? Pathetic. Vulnerable. Weak. Stupid. In fact, I have no words. Often times , We ladies speak without realizing how pathetic we sound. I heard words like ‘Don’t do this to me’, ‘ I feel lifeless without you’, ‘I feel less of myself’, 'Let me just die'... Why sis? To a man who impregnated another lady and intends making her a second wife? What got me madder was how the man took